One thing we all have in common is we are all thankful for our families. I was teased for the sappy expression I put on every time someone said the word "family", but I just couldn't help it. There are just so many times when I am overwhelmed by what a gift a loving family can be.
Today, before I launch into the frantic food frenzy that is the day before Thanksgiving, I want to take a moment to share how grateful I am for my only little clan.
I am, of course, so thankful for my husband. He works hard every day and is as loyal as the day is long. He listens to my rants, tries his best to understand my views, and wipes my tears when I realize I am a total misfit. He makes me laugh more than any other human being, he loves Jesus with all his heart, and is the most kind, generous, and understanding father I've ever encountered.
I am also quite grateful for my oldest son. He has given me a run for my money at every turn, and knows how to push every single one of my buttons at the same time, but he's never written me off, even though there are many many children who just walk away from their families. He has taught me what it looks like to forgive , and through him I've been given the opportunity to learn how to access Christ's love within me. He is a sharpening stone in my life, and I so enjoy watching God work in and through him.
My oldest daughter also fills my heart with appreciation and admiration. She is genuine and open, but is learning the fine art of recognizing trustworthy friends. She is willing to do the extremely hard work of forgiving past mistakes; her own and those of others. Her laugh fills a room but she doesn't have to joke to lift a mood. She is a true friend who listens with an open mind and prays with an open heart.
I am grateful for my younger son as well. He is so much like his father, loyal and diligent. I don't get to see him very often these days, but he is in love with an only-child. While it is difficult to part with him, his kindness in spending time with her family melts my heart. He is young, but he is becoming a man who recognizes a need and does his best to fill it. He is quiet and thoughtful and has a good heart.
This brings me to my youngest daughter, so much a mix of my husband and myself. She has such a sensitive spirit, and she constantly reminds me that its okay to feel every emotion fully. She is learning her worth and value as defined by Christ and I am often amazed at her strength when faced with temptation. In the midst of so many stressors during her senior high school year, she allows herself the balance of unapologetic joy, anger and tears...all bathed in Scripture.
God knew that I needed each of these people to mold me, sharpen me and direct me to Him. I am so thankful for each person in my family and for every memory that has formed us into who we are.
I'm not typically a big fan of country music, but when it comes to sappy lyrics about loving your family and your life, well...country music has a lot to offer.
Happy Thanksgiving!
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